Malaysian Students: How To Settle Into UK Life

Moving to a new country will always be challenging, especially when trying to figure out your new university life simultaneously. To help, we've compiled a handy guide full of advice for settling in as a Malaysian student in the UK. Whether you’re looking to make friends, feeling homesick, or just curious about UK culture and customs, we’ll help you approach these challenges.

In this blog, we'll cover the following:

• Preparing for British culture and customs
• Finding a little slice of Malaysia in the UK
• Making friends as a Malaysian student

Preparing for British culture and customs

As you start learning the British culture, you’ll probably pick up on a few stereotypes. While there might be truth to them, they might not be a true depiction, so don’t base your expectations on these as a Malaysian student. As a diverse and multicultural society, Britain is a great place for foreign students to study. Here are some things you might expect from British culture:

The weather

Due to its unpredictability, the weather in the UK can be quite difficult for Malaysian students to get used to. Coming to the UK from Malaysia, one of the first things that hits you is the weather! Back home, we're used to a more predictable climate—hot and sunny for most of the year, with the occasional monsoon downpour.

Here in the UK, the weather can change anytime. The UK doesn't get as much sunshine as Malaysia. Winter days are shorter, and the sky is often grey. This might feel strange initially, and some people even get down because of the lack of sun. You’ll eventually get used to the quirks of British weather, but make sure you’re prepared by carrying umbrellas and jackets that endure random showers or sharp sunlight.

Politeness and manners

Brits are gracious with their "thank yous”, and you shouldn’t be surprised if you hear it for little tasks such as holding the door open or passing the salt at the table. Do not be startled if it appears excessive at first, it will gradually become a normal part of your daily life. In Malaysia, we tend to stand slightly closer when speaking with a buddy, especially in busy situations. A pleasant pat on the back or arm is appropriate for expressing affection.

However, remember that individuals in the UK like their personal space. It's advisable to have a comfortable distance during chats and avoid too much physical contact unless you are close pals. British folks are very polite, so do not hesitate to ask questions and converse. This might also be a good opportunity to help you improve your English speaking and comprehension skills.

Find a little slice of home

As a Malaysian student settling in the UK, you might occasionally feel homesick. Don’t worry; there are ways to tackle it and ensure you still enjoy your time there. The UK is a diverse country with many cultures, so you’re never too far from home. Here are a few ways to experience a slice of Malaysia while living in the UK. 

Locate supermarkets specialising in Malaysian delicacies

Undoubtedly, British food just can’t emulate the authentic flavours from home. Whilst this might seem negative, it gives you a chance to scout out the supermarkets in your new city that specialise in your country's specific delicacies.

With a quick web search or a good cookbook, you can discover the secrets to authentic ingredients for various cuisines. Many international grocery stores or online retailers carry ingredients from around the world.

Join international university societies

Another way to connect to people who understand you is to join societies and clubs. When you’re new to a culture, you might feel like you don’t fit in, but try not to worry - you'll find other international students trying to create and join communities away from home. 

Depending on what you want to get out of them, you could explore cultural, religious, or interest-based groups. These are a great way to meet new people and great places to improve your mental health. You’ll find that students often face similar challenges to you and can offer insightful advice.

Keep in touch with friends and family at home

You must stay connected with friends and family back home, even when you’re not feeling homesick. Always use your traditional support system and remember, these people know you best and can help when you’re having a difficult time.

Making friends as a Malaysian student whilst studying in the UK

Making friends as a Malaysian student can be daunting, especially when you feel that the culture around uni differs greatly from what you’re used to. You may miss hanging out with your buddies and how things were done at home. 

Accents, slang, and cultural references might make conversation challenging at first. But while you might feel different, studying abroad is a fantastic way to broaden your horizons and make friends from different cultures. Here are a few great ways to connect with others as you start university in the UK:

Get out of your comfort zone

The essence of moving to any country as an international student is exposure, trying new things, embracing change and getting out of your comfort zone. There's a lot to learn, so join clubs and societies that might be out of your comfort zone. You never know; you might find something that’ll become a new passion or hobby.

Most universities in the UK have student union websites listing groups and clubs students can join. Search the university websites for societies or clubs that might interest you, such as "Malaysian Society" or something similar. You could also look for Facebook groups or online forums dedicated to Malaysian students in the UK or these cities. These clubs can be excellent for engaging with students and learning about local societies.

Student view

Hear from a Unite Student content creator, Binni, on her experience living with Unite Students as an international student studying in the UK:

“Being an international student, the anxiousness and overwhelming feeling did not last long for me! The people here are very welcoming and helpful. As a student, you will be a part of a diverse and friendly student community. One of the most important decisions you will make as international student is where to live during your studies.

"Based on my research I chose Unite Students which I feel is one of the best decisions I made. To break the ice with my fellow mates, they arranged multiple engagement opportunities such as potluck, daily breakfast and FIFA events, festive celebrations were arranged which gave me a chance to meet people and make friends. 

"The location of the accommodation is located very close to the university campus, the city centre, shops and restaurants, which takes away the hassle of daily commute and makes it very easier for me to juggle between classes and work. Once I got settled, I also joined student communities such as dancing community, singing community, pottery club which made me pursue my hobbies and hone my artistic skills.”

"This is just the beginning of your exciting journey in the UK! Embrace new challenges, explore different opportunities, and most importantly, make the most of your time here. We wish you the best of luck in your studies and a truly enriching experience in the UK!"